• Eco-friendly funeral options and aquamation services in Simcoe County
Legacy Staff • October 28, 2026
Cremation vs. Aquamation
When you’re planning a farewell for someone you love—or starting to think about your own pre-arrangements—one of the first major decisions you’ll come across is choosing the right method of disposition.
For a long time around Simcoe County, traditional flame cremation has been the go-to alternative to a standard casket burial. But lately, a newer, much gentler option called Aquamation (Alkaline Hydrolysis or Resomation) has been gaining a lot of ground.
As a local, family-owned and operated funeral provider, we don't believe in high-pressure sales. We just want to give you clear, honest information so you can make the choice that actually feels right for your family. Here is a down-to-earth look at how flame cremation and Aquation stack up when it comes to the process, the environment, and the cost right here in Barrie and Simcoe County.
1. The Process: How do they actually work?
Even though both choices leave you with your loved one's essential elements (what we usually call "ashes"), the way they get there is completely different.
- Flame Cremation: This is the traditional route. It uses high heat and open flame to reduce the body, taking about two to three hours. Afterward, the bone fragments are processed into a grainy powder and placed in an urn or temporary container.
- Aquamation: Think of this as a gentle water cremation. Instead of fire, it uses a mix of very hot water, an alkaline solution, and water pressure. It essentially mirrors natural decomposition, just sped up to take about three to four hours. Because there’s no fire involved, the remains usually turn out lighter or whiter, and you actually receive up to 20% more returned.
2. The Environmental Impact
If leaving a smaller footprint or planning a "green" farewell matters to you, water cremation is definitely the frontrunner here.
- The Footprint of Flame: Traditional cremation relies heavily on natural gas to hit those incredibly high temperatures, which naturally creates greenhouse gas emissions.
- The Gentle Choice of Water: Aquamation cuts energy use by up to 90% compared to flame cremation. It doesn't produce direct greenhouse gases and keeps things like mercury or airborne toxins out of our atmosphere. The water byproduct goes safely back into the ecosystem by means of municipal water treatment, making it the cleanest option available today.
3. Talking Costs in Barrie
We know budgets matter, and we believe in complete financial transparency. A common question we get is whether choosing the eco-friendly route will break the bank.
- Direct Flame Cremation: This is still the most budget-friendly and accessible choice for families who want to keep things incredibly simple. It completely skips the need for expensive caskets, embalming, or burial vaults.
- Aquamation Pricing: The specialized equipment is a major investment and requires specific licensing here in Ontario, so Aquamation does sometimes cost a little bit more than basic flame cremation. That said, it is still significantly more affordable than a traditional, full casket burial.
- Our Promise: At Legacy, our General Price List is always available right on our website. You can look through exact, unbundled numbers without worrying about hidden fees. We can inform you of what third party disbursements cost and what needs to be included for final pricing.
Which path is right for you?
There’s truly no single "correct" answer here. Deciding between fire and water comes down to what you value most—whether that’s your personal beliefs, protecting the environment, or staying within a certain budget.
Whether you lean toward the time-tested simplicity of flame or the gentle, green footprint of Aquamation, our only goal is to make sure your loved one is cared for with total dignity.
If a traditional visitation or service are your wishes, you may still have Aquamation or Cremation as a final disposition of the body.
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These decisions are heavy, deeply personal, and can easily feel overwhelming. If you want to come take a look at our space, flip through our itemized pricing, or just talk things out with someone local who understands, the Legacy team is right here.
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Over the past few years, the bereavement sector has seen a shift into the corporate sphere. This may be an uncomfortable reality for some individuals or families who have already pre-arranged — and even prepaid — their final rites; it was independent when you made your relationship with the funeral home, but now it has been bought out by a corporation that is or will be making changes to the business. What to do? You can always transfer your pre-arrangements to another establishment. Believe it or not, it’s easier than you would think. In fact, it is as easy as a visit to the funeral home of your choice. Let them know about your existing arrangements, and leave your wishes on file with the new establishment. You’ll receive a few documents for you and your Estate Trustee to place in safe keeping. The rest of it will be taken care of by your new funeral home. Easy peasy. And, if you have prepaid, you do not need to worry; your money is always your money, held in trust by a third party. The funeral establishment holds it in trust until the time comes for that money to cover the costs of the contract for which it is prepaid. You can have it back at any time, and transferring your policy between establishments is an easy feat. You don’t even have to do anything, because that part is up to the funeral home. If you were planning on funding your funeral through an insurance policy or annuity contract, all you will have to do is fill out a form, which will be provided to you by the funeral director. It is worth noting, however, that the previous establishment which oversaw the investment of your prepaid funds has the right to keep ten percent, up to but not exceeding $350.00. This is an administrative fee, which may be written into your contract, and may be applied to your cancellation, though not all establishments will deduct this fee. But, if you decide to cancel your contract within the thirty-day cooling-off period, then this is a non-issue. There are many reasons why you may wish to transfer your funeral pre-arrangements to a new funeral home; whether you have moved, the funeral home has been bought out or closed, or you simply feel more comfortable somewhere else. Whatever the case, know that you always have options. You are never locked into a contract until all the goods and services have been provided. So, if you have reason to find a place for yourself within another funeral home, do not be afraid to make the change. First and foremost, you must do what is right for you, and your loved ones.
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End-of-life is a topic people tend to avoid discussing, or even thinking about, and understandably so. Confronting the reality of what will happen after you or a loved one passes is not always a comfortable or pleasant experience. It is a topic fraught with fear and uncertainty. But, it doesn’t have to be. Having The Talk of a Lifetime with your loved ones, while it may seem daunting at first, can actually help to demystify what is to happen after the loss, and give everyone a little peace of mind knowing when the time does come, they have been equipped with the knowledge to make good decisions that will honour their loved one. However, this Talk is not just about your own or your loved one’s final wishes. Yes, it can help you to understand their wishes when it comes to end-of-life planning, but ultimately it’s about sharing one's life story, experiences, lessons, and so much more. It can even help to get to know each other in a new way, and to make invaluable memories during life. Oftentimes, conversations like these will be sparked by a major life event like the loss of a loved one, or a health scare. But why wait? Why not have these important discussions beforehand, when everyone can participate and emotions are not already running high? Instead of waiting for the worst, you can take control of the conversation and have it during a time when everyone is comfortable, in any space you feel comfortable. You can have it at a family gathering, or over dinner, or you can have a series of five-minute conversations that help to understand what you or your loved one wants. You can even get creative and make a game out of it! Just remember not to overcomplicate it, keep it on-track, and take notes. If you’re struggling to think of ways to broach the subject, or questions to ask, try talking about proudest achievements, most important pieces of advice, favourite memories, etc. Whether it’s a thought-provoking question or a lighthearted pondering, it’s all fair game. Memorialization is an important part of the grieving process, but it’s also important to make sure a life feels valued while still living — everybody wants to know that their life touched someone in some way. That is the essence of the Talk of a Lifetime. It’s scary to think about losing people we love, or coming to the end of our own lives, but don’t be afraid to connect with your loved ones in this way. If it brings you closer together, or gives you helpful information, you’ll be all the more grateful for it. For more information on Having The Talk of a Lifetime, you can visit our website at https://www.legacyfuneralandcremationservices.ca/have-the-talk-of-a-lifetime , or at www.talkofalifetime.org
We at Legacy Funeral Home believe it is important to give you the tools to make informative decisions regarding your future. Unfortunately we are not able to host a seminar at this time, but we have put together a video that we trust you will find informative and helpful. Click the link to watch the video: https://www.facebook.com/LegacyFuneralAndCremation/videos/437179544177586 Feel free to contact any one of us to answer questions or to help plan for your future. Lawyer: Trevor Owen 705-726-1181 Financial Planner: John Fischer 705-726-7256 Clinical Counselor: Steve Winfield 705-728-3017 ext:1205 Funeral Director: Matt Drury 705-728-8282
Ordinarily, grief makes it difficult to know up from down. But, the arrival of the pandemic has only muddied the waters. With all these restrictions, unknowns, and a future that seems uncertain, it can be hard to know what choices are right for us. Funeral rites give us something tangible to hold onto during the state of upheaval after the loss of a loved one. It’s an active, productive outlet for our emotions, which many grief experts say is especially important to healthy grieving. They also can help with healing, like a springboard from which we can begin to move forward again. Now, everything is in upheaval. This makes it so much harder to deal with the devastation in our personal lives when the time comes to say goodbye. This is why people have begun to put off any kind of rites, opting to revisit them during better times. However, by depriving ourselves of the closure that a formal farewell provides, we only draw out the grieving process. It causes a phenomenon of suspended grief — we can’t move forward, we can’t say goodbye, we end up stuck in one moment that lasts indefinitely. It’s understandable why nobody wants to put on a funeral for a limited number of people. What’s supposed to be a time of community begins to sound like a lonely experience. But, let’s examine the situation a little more closely; when you put off the process of saying goodbye you end up grieving alone, and so postponing a funeral only exacerbates the sense of isolation. During a time when isolation is already palpable and mental health is wearing thin, why make the situation even harder on ourselves? If we don’t know when these restrictions are going to be lifted, why put it off with no end in sight? In our professional experience even before the pandemic, we’ve seen the difference it can make when families are involved in the arrangements. Now, we’re seeing families suffer excessively because they were unable to properly grieve the death of their loved one. Other professionals have seen this, as well, and agree that funeral restrictions have people feeling they have to grieve twice — we’ve shared this excellent article on our Facebook page, and I implore you to check it out if you haven’t already. (https://www.cbc.ca/.../pei-funerals-grieving-pandemic-1...) Your grief can’t be postponed, so neither should a funeral. There are always options. You can have a small ceremony now, or even a graveside service, and a memorial or celebration of life later when these restrictions are lifted. You can livestream the service to connect with family and friends, and foster that much-missed sense of community; sharing prayers, memories, condolences, songs, etc. can be uplifting during a painful time, and we especially need that now. There’s a lot we don’t know, especially in such unprecedented times. But, one thing will always be true: grief is a unique, sometimes overwhelming experience. You’re still allowed to have closure, so don’t be afraid to have the service that you need.
